Coming about using a bowsprit.
Ron, In my opinion, the rig you have doesn't look balanced with the hull. You might find she sails better without the staysail. Sailing to windward, she should, to be properly balanced carry slight weatherhelm, at the moment she is obviously carrying a lot of lee helm which stops her coming about. Ian has posted a lot of useful information, follow his advice and you should get a definite improvement in handling.
Good luck, Nerys
When the winds before the rain, soon you may make sail again, but when the rain's before the wind, tops'l sheets and halyards mind